Wedding Ring Styles: Types of Wedding Bands & How to Choose One

Wedding ring styles: Types of wedding bands and how to choose one

There’s a lot to be said about choosing the perfect engagement ring — after all, it marks the very start of your union, and builds excitement for the big day. But wedding rings are just as important, or perhaps even more so. Not only do they symbolise your commitment to one another, but they’re also one of the few pieces of jewellery you’ll wear every single day.

That’s why it’s important to choose a wedding band that doesn’t just represent your love and commitment, but one that’s comfortable, durable enough for everyday wear, and above all, uniquely you. That’s where our wedding ring buying guide comes in.

Here, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know when choosing a wedding band, from different wedding ring styles and shapes to typical costs. We’ll also answer some of the most frequently asked wedding ring questions, so you can feel prepared for your special day and beyond.

● The history of wedding rings

● How much do wedding rings cost?

● Types of wedding rings

● How to choose wedding rings

● Wedding bands FAQs

The history of wedding rings

A wedding ring is, and always has been, a symbol of love, loyalty, and commitment. Its origins stem back to the Ancient Egyptians, who saw the circle as a symbol of forever. However, the bands looked a little different back then: they were often made from natural materials, like braided reeds or papyrus. The Ancient Egyptians also set the precedent of wearing a ring on the fourth finger, believing a “vein of love” ran from this finger to the heart — though this is actually a myth.

The Ancient Greeks also used rings to symbolise love and commitment, though these were not wedding rings in the modern sense. These rings were stronger than those of the Ancient Egyptians, usually crafted from metals like bronze or, for wealthier citizens, gold. It was common for rings to feature symbols of love, such as depictions of Cupid, the god of love.

It was the Ancient Romans who formalised the tradition of wedding rings. They also wore stronger rings than the Ancient Egyptians, first using materials like ivory and leather, and eventually moving on to metals, like iron.

Wedding rings started to gain popularity in Europe from the 9th century onwards, when the Christian church began formalising their use in marriage ceremonies. From the 15th century, personalised engravings became more prevalent. One popular engraving phrase was “united hearts death only parts” — a ring with this engraving was known as a “posy ring”. Rings depicting two hands clasped were another popular design at this time, known as “gimmel rings.”

Wondering when men started wearing wedding rings? For centuries, only women’s wedding rings were worn. However, this changed around World War 2, as male soldiers began wearing wedding bands on the left hand to remind them of their wives back home. For the first time, men’s wedding rings became common, and dual rings have since become the norm.

How much do wedding rings cost?

The cost of a wedding ring varies depending on the style, materials used, and any personalisation, such as engraving. Gold and platinum rings tend to be more expensive than silver or alternative metals, and diamond or gemstone accents can increase the cost, too.

According to Bridebook, the average wedding ring in the UK costs £1,057. However, rings can cost as low as £50 and go up to £3,000, so there are options to suit every budget.

Types of wedding rings

There are so many different types of wedding rings to choose from. This means you’re never short of choices, but it can make ring shopping feel a little bit overwhelming! To make your search easier, here’s a thorough run-through of wedding band shapes, styles, and materials, so you can make an informed decision when choosing the ring you’ll cherish and wear every single day.

Wedding band shapes

One of the first style choices you’ll make when wedding band shopping is the shape of the ring. Here are the most common shapes you’ll come across:

Court: A classic wedding ring style and popular amongst men and women, court rings are simple bands, with a rounded (or domed) interior and exterior. They are also known as comfort-fit rings, which is just one of the reasons why they are so popular.
Flat court: As the name suggests, the flat court is similar to the standard court, but comes with a flat exterior and curved interior. It provides the same level of comfort as a standard court, but has a sleeker, more streamlined look.
D-shaped: These rings are the opposite of a flat court — they come with a flat interior surface and a rounded exterior, which sits beautifully on the finger.
Flat: Prefer a completely sleek and minimalist look? Flat rings have flat interiors and exteriors.
Concave: If you’re looking for something more unique, a concave ring could be the choice for you. This shape has an inward curve on the exterior of the band, creating a slightly hollowed effect. The interior is usually rounded for comfort.
Knife-edge: A more modern aesthetic, a knife-edge ring features a sharp, angular ridge running through the centre of the band, which tapers towards the finger.

We have a variety of styles to choose from here at Chapelle, including shaped wedding rings designed to curve smoothly around an engagement ring, allowing you to wear both precious pieces on your ring finger at the same time.

Wedding ring metals

Choosing your wedding ring metal is about more than just colour — although that does play an important part. The material you choose impacts how durable your band is, and can also change how you care for your ring. Here are the wedding ring materials you will come across in your search:

Platinum wedding bands: Looking for the best of the best? Platinum is incredibly valuable and one of the most durable jewellery metals, making it a great choice for an everyday accessory. Naturally white in colour, it won’t fade or require replating over time.
White gold wedding bands: White gold offers a similar look to platinum, but with a lower price tag. It is created by mixing yellow gold with white metals, such as palladium, and is typically coated with rhodium to enhance its bright white finish. Over time, this plating may need to be reapplied to maintain its appearance.
Yellow gold wedding bands: Yellow gold comes with a beautiful and unique warmth, which is what makes it such a popular choice for wedding rings. Available in different purities such as 9ct or 18ct, it suits a range of budgets.
Silver wedding bands: Silver is a more affordable option for wedding rings and has a bright, clean appearance, similar to white gold and platinum.
Cobalt wedding bands: Cobalt is a modern metal known for its strength and durability. It has a bright, white appearance similar to platinum but is much more lightweight and affordable. It is also highly scratch-resistant, making it perfect for everyday wear.

Wedding band widths

Another important decision when choosing a wedding ring is the width of the band. Wedding rings typically range from around 2mm to 8mm, though some designs may be thinner or wider. The width you choose can change both the look and feel of the ring, so consider what suits your style and lifestyle best:

2mm to 3mm: Thin and delicate, these bands are often chosen for a subtle and elegant look. They are a popular option for women, particularly when paired with an engagement ring.
4mm to 5mm: These bands are a common choice for both men and women. They offer a noticeable presence on the finger, but are still lightweight and comfortable for everyday wear.
6mm to 8mm: Wider bands are perfect for those looking for a bold and modern look. These widths are often chosen for men’s wedding rings, but they are a great choice for anyone who prefers a more substantial ring.

When choosing a width, it’s also worth thinking about hand size and finger shape. Wider bands can feel tighter than thinner ones, so you may need to go slightly larger in ring size for a comfortable fit.

Wedding ring styles

Shape, metal, and width give you the overall structure of the band, but the style is what makes it uniquely yours. Some prefer simple, classic designs, while others like eye-catching, decorative bands.

Plain wedding bands

Looking for something simple and timeless? You can’t go wrong with a plain wedding ring. These bands come just as they are, without any gemstones or decorative features. They offer a clean and understated look and are incredibly versatile, making them ideal for everyday wear.

Patterned wedding bands

If you’re looking for a more unique band, a patterned wedding ring is the choice for you. Patterned rings come in a variety of styles, from subtle designs like hammered and twisted bands, to eye-catching, Celtic-inspired rings. They are perfect if you’re looking for something a little more personal.

Diamond-set wedding bands

For those who want a little extra sparkle, diamond-set wedding bands incorporate small diamonds into the design of the ring. These stones may be set across the entire band or placed in a single row, adding elegance and brilliance to the piece. Popular settings include:

Channel set: Diamonds sit securely between two strips of metal
Pavé: Small diamonds set closely together across the surface of the band
Claw set: Each diamond is held in place by small metal prongs

How to choose wedding bands

You know the different wedding ring styles available — now it’s time to narrow down your choices. Wondering how to choose a wedding ring with so many options to explore? We’ve put together a 10-point list to help you narrow down your options, from design to shape to metal.

1. Budget

Consider how much you want to spend on your wedding bands, bearing in mind the other wedding expenses you’ll be facing. Plain bands can be on the cheaper side, while more elaborate designs and rings with diamonds will be pricier. If you’re looking for ways to save, outlet jewellery shops can be a great choice. Here at Chapelle, we offer at least 30% off the RRP on absolutely everything, so you know you’re getting a great deal when you shop with us.

2. Comfort

If you’re wearing your wedding band every day, comfort is no doubt at the forefront of your mind. If it is your main priority, look for bands with a rounded interior surface. Getting the right size is also crucial — check out our ring size guide to find the perfect fit. If you’re buying your ring online and can’t try it on first, make sure you can return it if it doesn’t feel comfortable. Here at Chapelle, we offer a 30-day change of mind guarantee for peace of mind.

3. Durability

You don’t just want your wedding ring to look good — you want it to last, especially if you’re wearing it every day. Invest in quality to ensure your ring stands the test of time, and choose metals and designs that will be most durable for everyday wear.

4. Maintenance

No matter how durable your ring is, regular cleaning and maintenance are needed to keep it looking its best. Think about how much ongoing maintenance you’re willing to commit to. Some rings may also need professional work occasionally. For example, certain metals, such as white gold, may need to be replated from time to time.

5. Style

To make your wedding band feel truly your own, choose one that reflects your personal style. You may prefer an understated design that will never go out of fashion, or a more distinctive design that stands out. Both options are great, and it ultimately comes down to personal taste.

6. Versatility

Since you’ll likely be wearing your wedding band most days, think about how the ring will work with your wardrobe, from your everyday wear to formal outfits. Simple bands go with pretty much everything, but more elaborate designs can be better suited to certain looks.

7. Your existing jewellery collection

If you regularly wear other jewellery, consider how your wedding band will fit in with those pieces. Choosing a metal that complements your favourite jewellery can help create a more cohesive look.

8. Resizability

Finger sizes can change over time, so it’s worth thinking about whether your ring can be resized in the future. Some metals, like gold and silver, are easier to adjust than others, which may be an important factor if you want flexibility later on.

9. Personalisation

Many couples choose to personalise their wedding rings with engravings of special dates or meaningful messages. This can make your ring even more sentimental and unique to you. Fortunately, most rings can be engraved, though it can be more difficult (and more expensive) to engrave thinner bands and very hard metals, like tungsten.

10. Lifestyle

Your daily routine has a big influence on the ring type that suits you best. For example, active lifestyles are often best suited to the most durable and simplistic designs, whereas those who work less with their hands may feel more comfortable choosing intricate or diamond-set bands.

Wedding band FAQs

Found the perfect type of wedding ring? Now it’s time to shop! Below, we’ve answered some of the most frequently asked questions about buying — and wearing — your wedding band, to help you prepare for your big day and beyond.

Who buys the wedding rings?

There are no strict rules about who buys the wedding rings, so the choice is entirely yours. Traditionally, couples would buy their partner's wedding ring and present it to them during the ceremony. Today, it's much more common for brides and grooms-to-be to ring shop together, or even buy their own rings separately and reveal them to their partner on the big day.

When to buy wedding rings

Again, there’s no strict rule for when to buy wedding rings, but it’s important to allow plenty of time for resizing and engraving. We recommend purchasing your rings at least four months before the big day.

Do wedding rings have to match?

No, there’s no need for wedding bands to match! Since you’ll likely be wearing your ring every day, it’s important to choose one you truly love, even if your taste is completely different from your partner’s. Matching rings can be a lovely way to represent your unity as a couple, but even if your rings don’t match, they are still a symbol of your love and commitment. And two separate rings can be just as romantic, showing that you’re independent spirits who choose to come together in love.

Do men wear wedding rings?

Yes! While once upon a time only women wore wedding rings, many men today wear them as a symbol of love and commitment.

How to wear a wedding ring and an engagement ring together

According to tradition, both the wedding band and engagement ring are worn on the ring finger (the fourth finger of the left hand). The wedding ring is worn first to keep it “closest to the heart”, and the engagement ring is worn on top. However, comfort is key, and it isn’t always practical to wear both rings on the same finger. The most important thing is that your rings sit comfortably and feel secure. A popular alternative is to wear the wedding ring on the ring finger, and the engagement ring on the fourth finger of the right hand.

Which order do you wear engagement, wedding, and eternity rings?

If you’re lucky enough to have an eternity ring as well, it is also traditionally worn on the ring finger on the left hand. It sits above the engagement ring, so the rings are stacked in chronological order. But again, this is just tradition — you should prioritise comfort and ring security above all else. Some people choose to wear the eternity ring on the right hand. It can also work well stacked with the wedding ring on the left-hand ring finger, as these are usually simple bands that sit neatly together. This way, the engagement ring can shine on its own on the right hand.

Every wedding ring is an important symbol of love, commitment, and the journey you share together. Whether you follow tradition, mix and match styles, or create your own unique approach, the best wedding ring is one that feels right for you and your relationship.

When you’re ready to choose your perfect band, explore our full collection of wedding rings. We stock a wide range of wedding bands for men and women, all with at least 30% off the RRP. Shop the full range online today, or pop into your local branch and see how our friendly team can help you.

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